What does friendzoned mean?
What does friendzoned mean? "I've been friendzoned.."
It may be zone of friends or area of friends.
I guess many friends in a friend circle.
Actually it means that a girl put a guy in 'the friendzone'..as in the guy really likes the girl, but she doesn't want a relationship with him a says that they should be just friends.
oh..ok, the same old movie stories !
I would also like to add that the word: friendzoned is used alot in PUA circles and forums.
And most of those guys are really bitter about bring friendzoned. Some of them go so far as to say that they became players because they were friendzoned by someone. And they only remember her because she rejected him.
So if you were friendzoned, my advice is: don't ask her or yourself why? Think of it as being a harsh mistress like Nature. Don't beat yourself up and get bitter over it because you will only hurt yourself and others. You can only control how you feel about being rejected. She rejected you for a reason and that reason could be anything.
But being friendzoned or rejected is no excuse to become a player, guido, or what not. It's better to brush it off like water on a duck.
In fact the real question you should ask yourself is: "Why did I want a relationship with her?"
I have asked myself that question before and my answer was, because I was lonely. Why was I lonely?
It seemed at the time I was fighting my own battles in my world and I wanted someone to be there for me and stuff. Well I soon realized I was being self fish, my world wasn't good enough for her. My life was not good enough and I should make it better.
So the next time I invited a girl into my world, my life, I made sure it was better and it got better.
I make sure I be myself and chase after my own dreams and ambitions. I don't chase after her constantly like a desperate puppy weened off his mommy. I don't sit there and make mix tapes for her and daydream of her and write poetry dedicated to her and make greeting cards.
You know what I do? I sit there and play video games I want to play. I sit here at my laptop and go to websites I want to go to. I listen to music that I like, not what she likes. I dream of walking around palatial gardens in leather underwear with a flowing cape like a prince.
Because I want to be a prince. It's my right. It's my duty to myself to embrace this dream and pursue what makes me happy.
And if she wants to come with me too, than I would be happy to take her with me along for the ride.
Because that is what makes up your world.
When she asks about your friends, she is asking what are your friends like? Because your friends make up your world.
When she looks at your shoes, she is thinking: "Do you treat yourself good? Oh those shoes look brand new and look take care of, I too would like to be taken care of."
But when you look at some emoting guy who is being emo. Who vomits his emotions into mixed tapes and greeting cards. Who walks around in torn up shoes and looks like he can't take care of himself. That is the guy who gets rejected and friendzoned.
But if you walk around like a prince, if you treat youself like a prince, you won't be friendzoned. You'll be respected. Women will look at you and think: "WOW! There goes Prince Poke the 646th! Yes your majesty! I wonder if I can convince him to give me the time of day."
Fair Maiden: "Good morning Prince Poke!"
Poke-cay the Six Hundred and Sixth: "Good morning my fair maiden, how are you today?"
Fair Maiden: "Why I am just swell your majesty!"
Poke: "Will you be interested in going out with me, my lady?" *bows and kisses her hand*
Fair Maiden: "Oh, surely you jest, where would we go?"
Poke: "We shall go skydiving, snorkeling, and travel to exotic places and touch all the things! We will play with my big boy toys and I'll even let you drive my Ferarri Carriage! Don't worry about crashing it, I'm RICH! Oh and really because I would like to spend my FREE time having FUN with you."
And the most likely reason you have been friendzoned is because you fail at having FUN.
When we men were like 8. What did we do? Did we not convince mom to buy us the coolest toys so we can go play in the sandbox?
At the sandbox, girls would be playing too and if they liked your toy they would want to come and play with you. Or you would get lonely and get them to play your games with you. Sometimes they would make you play husband and make you stay in the cardboard house home and make you role play and do chores. At an early age you receive your training from them.
But now that we are grown ups, we still have our toys. That power drill, that sports car, and that DIY gaming computer. These are all toys that give feelings to women. Women see you having fun and would want to have fun with you. If they see you moping CONSTANTLY on a mixed tape that you worked all night on, than they might think something is wrong with you. They would think; "Is that all he does, make MIXED TAPES all night? Why doesn't he enjoy making them? Why does he mope?"
And that is why an emoting man is not a good prospect to spend the rest of your life with.
Last edited by poke_646; 09-11-2011 at 08:57 PM.
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I have never heard of this before.
Wow what a post! Emoting man eh? Never heard that lol
Originally Posted by poke_646
But I guess you came to know the meaning now
Originally Posted by angie828
The dreaded friendzone... It means you will never be with the girl because she "doesn't want to ruin your friendship" and she no longer sees you as the sexual predator you are!!!! Go kiss her and tell her you are very horny, quickly!!!